LOOKING FOR GOOD NEWS

 

Like an innocent child, I am hunting for GOOD NEWS!

Anything that brings happiness will serve as well.

Wherever I go, the news is awful. Turn on the TV and it is death, murder, rape.

I need a long break from this negative reporting. If you feel as I do, then please share something happy with our readers?

Thank you. Dr. Y

 

 

 

Para-Norma-lly Yours A Case History

Some of you may know that on occasion, spirit speaks to me..

It is not always an easy experience. This is about someone who passed in the 1970's who had tremendous guilt, but never knew AIDS was the culprit. After numerous times and visitations, it is important to tell this story. Perhaps, some of this soul's guilt can finally go away. It takes place before anyone knew or recognized AIDS!!!

This person had attained a wonderful fame and recognition. Sadly, this person was addicted to promiscuity while married. After numerous medical investigations, it was determined that the person had Cancer.  Not just any cancer, but one that always had been known to affect the elderly, not young people.  It causes wasting, loss of weight, untold pain, and eventually death. One common denominator with those afflicted with AIDS is Kaposi Sarcoma. Although the death certificates generally state "PNEUMONIA", do not be fooled, it is from AIDS!!!!!

Such was the tremendous tragedy that happened to this person, the spouse, and their infant child. Somehow miraculously, the spouse and their baby, did not contract AIDS.  No one knows why! FYI... Some innocent people got AIDS from blood transfusions.

 

When the deceased began coming to me from spirit, it was to seek solace for the ugly, agonized death and how it endangered the spouse and baby.  I have prayed long and hard for this tortured soul to find solace.  But up to this moment of writing, it hasn't happened. As an empath, I feel this soul's unhappiness and would so appreciate your wisdoms.

Thank you.  Dr. Y

Arthur Ashe (bottom right) from tainted transfusion. Arthur used to come and dance to our salsa music.  Such a personal loss.

Freddy Mercury from his lifestyle. 

Ofra Hahza from tainted blood transfusion during miscarriage.

David J. who died from his lifestyle. Mikey who died from his lifestyle.

And so many other unfortunate souls who contracted AIDS, including the innocent babies!!!!!

I love you. I pray for you. I care.

DEDICATED TO OUR LOVED ONES

 

Many of us are, or have been, loving pet parents.

When that inevitable time comes to let them go, it is like losing one's own child. I know, because of all the precious fur-kidz we have had to send on to Rainbow. To me, it is emotionally devastating. Sometimes, when no illness was showing, all of a sudden, the suffering was like an awakening in an instant of realization, and just too late to fix medically. We would never allow fatal suffering to linger. So we give them the needle of peace. But sometimes, we are not home to be there to help out when the pet turns life-and-death ill.

 Cats have a way of masking serious illness. They are amazingly stoic.

If there is a sudden death and we are not there with them at that exact moment, it is easy to feel enormous guilt.  Providing you have been a loving and nurturing pet parent, feeling guilty is not going to help anyone. It will only rip you apart with more grief.  Some of my grief or trauma patients have gone through this exact situation. In my own case, we recently lost two feline treasures. No, we didn't know they were so gravely ill. YES, the pets masked their suffering in front of us.  Initially I felt so guilty that I didn't catch it.  But, fate had other plans.

Please remember this: If you were wonderful to your pet or human loved ones, and for some reason were not there for them when they passed, you did your best. Don't allow guilt to make the loving memories diminish.

I am deeply sorry for any of your losses. Love from Dr. Y. 

Dedicated to Monique, her MOM, and Athena

 

WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT

Were you one of the lucky ones growing up who was given encouragement? If yes, isn't it a delicious feeling?  Many of us were not so blest.

I truly believe that as we sow, so shall we reap. Whenever possible, if I see someone struggling, and if  it's feasible to do, I enjoy giving hope and encouragement.  Who needs those who tear us down?

Some of my favorites are:

 

Good for you.

You get an "A" for effort.

Just do your best and it will go well.

I am so proud of you.

Thank you for trying.

We appreciate your work ethics.

Winning is not the end-all.  If you gave it your best, then that too is a win.

It's O.K. to cry. Then pick yourself up and go back to doing the best you possibly can.

And if everything fails:  please tell the defeated person,

I LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT!

 

If only I could have been my own parents, to help me through growing up. In order to encourage myself, take the time to look in the mirror and be your own ENCOURAGER!

 

 

Thank you Dr. Oz

 

Dear Dr. Oz...

I want to publicly thank you for bringing to light The Near Death Experience.  Your show today had some very articulate souls who went through exactly what I have on four separate occasions.  For years I have spoken to doctors, others in various medical fields, spiritual leaders, as well as just lovely plain folks about this subject.

Many have responded with thinking I was simply off the wall with my very lucid remembered experiences.

Others were more receptive and believed me, although they personally never had such a spiritually magickal event.

All that I lucidly went through, the people on Dr. Oz's show explained quite well. So that you can know what it is about, I will retell my own experience.

Without going through all four NDE's, I will relate the

public drowning.

Very briefly, I dove into our community pool, but could not surface from the bottom. I knew I was going to die and did not try to breathe. Then suddenly, I was going through a gray tunnel and simultaneously viewing my entire life in 3-D.

 Each and every vision that went before me, I could both interact with, and touch the events, and people.

Then suddenly, I was choking up chlorinated water and it really burned my insides.

It was horrendous, and when on the other side, I begged to remain there. So much for my begging request. The powers that be tossed me back here for more service.

Regardless of your opinions, it would be nice if you could comment.

At least, I no longer fear dying..